“Specific Incidents”

The Third primary way in which we are conditioned is by specific incidents. What you have experienced when you were young around money, wealth and rich people? These experiences are very important because they shape the beliefs you live with.

Let me give you an example. You all know film industry. You have/ been watching Hindi films right from your childhood. Just try and analyze. What is the message given in most of the films? It is always presumed that; Hero of any film has to be good person. He is good by heart and is very care taking person. The villain of the film is most notorious person and is having all possible bad habits. 

But, the main difference shown is that “As hero is good person – He is always shown as a poor person. He does not have money with him” as against this “villain is rich person and enjoying all possible good life style”.

This is not the end, in 100% of the films; Villain who is having money and is rich enough is defeated by a hero who is poor and a good guy.

Every individual has a tendency to show that he is good person. And these incidences are so ingrained in our mind that “To be a good person, you have to be poor.” If you become rich person; you always have the feeling that the entire society will call you a villain. So, most people prefer to be a poor rather than calling them self a villain. 

Statistics show that number one cause of all relationship breakups is money. If you understand very closely; biggest reason for all these fight is not just money but the money psychology you have regarding money. The money psychology we discuss is named as “Financial Blueprint”

Stay tuned for our next blog on – What is your financial blueprint set for?